College dating for guys
Reality: Guys will keep you confused and waiting for hours… Expectation: You two will cook together in your cute little college apartment, and basically play house. Expectation: Sex will be better because you’ve both had more experience. Expectation: You and your dates will have way more privacy because you don’t live with your parents.
Reality: You’ve both probably been drinking before you start hooking up, making things… Reality: Your roommate regularly walk in on you having sex.
But a lot of people stumble along, meeting tons of Mr. I heard this a million times in high school: “College guys are so much more mature and better, just wait.” Um, no. Reality: Most of them seem to have regressed in age, maybe. Expectation: You’ll go on sophisticated dates where you go to a fancy restaurant wearing something fabulous (like in the magazines). You guys go to a frat party and then pass out in a cramped bed in a tiny dorm room.
Expectation: Things will get serious quickly, because you’re older and more mature and ready to settle down.
Many college bros aren't too concerned about dating and "wooing" you; and truthfully, going to have a lot on your mind that has nothing to do with dating. Dating in High School: You develop a crush on a guy in class and try to sit next to him every period, so that he’ll finally notice you and ask you out. Dating in College: When you have sex or one-night stands, nobody gives a sh*t because everyone is doing it too. Dating in High School: You make a big deal over Valentine’s Day (). Dating in High School: Getting a boyfriend (aka having a permanent date to all the school dances) is your No. Dating in College: You’ll date if your schedule permits it.
Here are some realities about dating in college vs. Dating in College: Those holidays really aren’t that big of a deal. After all, you went to college to get a degree and become a #bosslady—not to just get your “MRS.” 9.
Reality: Every guy is just a slightly older version of a dude you knew in high school. Expectation: You’ll have fun, casual one-night stands where you’ll walk home carrying your heels in the morning, giggling to a friend about a sitcom-worthy awkward moment. Don't expect this pool of older guys to be gentlemen focused on finding a future wife. Let me just slip on these sweatpants and this sweatshirt so I’m not late to class. Dating in College: You’re lucky if you see your boyfriend at least once a day, since you both have completely different schedules. Dating in College: When your parents ask you about your dating life, your response is usually, “Guys don’t actually in college, mom.” 6.